As humans, we have so many facets that make us unique, whilst making us whole. I don’t think there is one thing that perfectly sums up our identity. Often we get caught up trying to live up to this ‘one-type’ of standard that is consequently probably set up by our comfort zone and thus, prevents us from enjoying every sphere of life. So if you had to choose . . .choose to,
L I V E!…….
You don’t have to choose to stick to one type of vibe or style but rock them all, and you know what THAT’S TOTALLY OKAY! Through this you will be able to decipher what it is that makes you confident and as a result, own every situation you’re in! Remember trends are always changing and we need to know how to incorporate our trademark into every season we find ourselves in (which will always be different and what works for one won’t work for another)!
Sometimes we only run with those who are so identical to us but miss out on getting to know other pretty awesome friends that could add so much value to our life because they don’t fit the ‘type’.
The contrast between TayTam’s style in the photos you see, simply reveals the idea that we don’t have to choose. Tami looking minimal and sleek while Tatum gave off the rock-n-roll vibe, but we were able to:
Make a pretty rad team!
Having said that, it doesn’t mean be a tumble weed blowing in the wind. In this day and age you need to have a back bone and know your standards, there are some things in life that you have to choose. Like your faith, your values and morals or what type of example you want to lead; but when it comes to the day to day choices like ” What am I going to wear? ” or ” What should I do today? ” I say don’t get so hung up on the details; if you want to be skater rock chic today but tomorrow be minimalistic sheek, I say go for it. What you wear doesn’t define who you are, it only brings out your personality more.
When it comes to deciding what to do on your day off, a plan is great sometimes but other times it could be fun just to do what you want and not stick to a plan. So go on that hike and then afterwards see that friend you have been wanting to catch up with and heck after that maybe you want go to the moon ….. ( ok a bit drastic ) but do you get my vibe. It’s about living in the moment. One day when you’re older, you will have sweet memories to tell your grandkids and look back and say “life is worth living for.”
Don’t let others put you in a box; life is about discovering who you are and growing through the experiences. Sometimes having the choice not to choose is freeing and it allows you to make mistakes. Learn from them and then know how to make great decisions for your future.
Choose not to choose sometimes. That is the beauty of choice, that it’s yours!